What’s all the hullabaloo over stubborn wedding cake bakers these days? More Christians being rude, intolerant, and ridiculous? Willing to lose their life’s work over their pride? Really? I can’t say for sure guys, but I’m bettin’ this ballgame is laced with lousy umpires. Just who is calling the shots and why should we listen to a bunch of bullified big mouths?
We shouldn’t. Before I share exactly why that is, take some time, sit down, take a deep breath, put your thinking cap on, and prepare to evaluate the truth about what is really happening here. You ready? Here goes…
Discrimination is not always a bad word, ladies and gentlemen. Gasp. I know. It comes as a shock after so much falseness and indoctrination from the left in our generation. But it just so happens that aside from it’s poor reputation regarding racism, prejudices, and partiality, discrimination can also be rightly described as “the ability or power to see or make fine distinctions; discernment.”
Discernment. “The act or process of exhibiting keen insight and good judgement.” Good judgement. Now, before the first wave of freedom filchers jumps me, steals my journal, and cries “You can’t judge me!” let me just be crystal clear.
Every single one of us – regardless of race or religion – exercises judgement every single day. If we are living life, we are making judgments. Is this food healthful? How late is too late? To speed or not to speed? Should I speak or stay silent? Is my coworker an alcoholic? Does my teacher understand the information she is sharing with me? On and on it goes.
We all make judgments, mostly for our own well being. That does not make us intolerant, hateful, or narrow-minded. It makes us human beings. We all make judgments all the time because we must in order to survive in this world. Therefore, when a man, woman, group, or government begins to cry “Discrimination!” we must assess the context before we are qualified to make a judgment about whether the act of discrimination was an act of dirty dereliction and prejudice or one of discernment and decency.
Why? Because being indiscriminate – not selective, lacking in judgment, and careless about distinctions – presupposes a certain standard of behavior. It must. Yes, those standards are different for each of us depending our our values and beliefs, however, all of us have standards of behavior which we accept and reject. Our standards allow us to filter our actions, reactions, or lack thereof. Let me explain…
If a man goes into a store, steals something, and gets caught, the owner of that store is likely going to give that man different treatment after he knows that man is a thief. Perhaps he won’t be allowed to shop in the store anymore. Maybe he will have to check his bags before coming in. Whatever the after is, it is discriminatory. Where the owner can be indiscriminate with his lifelong friends, he obviously cannot afford to do so with the general public. Discrimination based upon good judgment, discernment, and insight about just who it is that business owner is dealing with is, get this, wise.
What about a man who goes to buy a gun? Let’s say he tells the owner of the armory that he intends to use this shiny new weapon to kill his wife and children later on today. Should that owner “discriminate” against this particular consumer? Of course! He must discriminate against this man based upon the man’s willful, blatant admission of future eminent wrongdoing that violates both personal convictions of right and wrong and our country’s civil laws.
From a Christian standpoint, homosexuality is wrong. I know, it’s shocking. I’m not making up this stuff, people, God did. You got a problem, talk to him. Homosexuality is what Our God calls a sin. Specifically, the sin of perversion. Therefore, to serve a man or woman who discloses his intent to use our services to celebrate and consummate that act violates both our conscience as well as Our God’s moral laws. To serve that individual, for us, is to become an accomplice to the act and actually participate in the sin by our apparent approval. Doing so grieves our conscience just the same as our own sinful behavior does. Let me just add that I would have the same conviction if I were a ticket seller at the movie theater. Enabling people to entertain sin as amusement or recreation is to participate. We need discernment, church.
I began to think deeply on these things after seeing the following comic:
At first glance this may seem witty and correct, but after a closer look and honest consideration, one must recognize the inaccuracy and arrogance of it. It is said that the only difference between a believer and an unbeliever is that the former loves God and hates his sin and the latter loves his sin and hates God.
The whole of the Christian life is about balance. Every single one of us, regardless of our religious affiliation or lack thereof, sin every single day. Clearly, there is a stark contrast between an individual who is striving against his own wrong desires and actions toward the end of a more righteous life and an individual who is blatantly living in a lifestyle characterized by his wrongness and immorality with no intention to change – even celebrating it and expecting that everyone around him do the same lest he throw a fit and insist they all agree or else be name called, blacklisted, and put completely out of business.
That said, logically, if a person goes into a place of business and chooses to eat something unhealthy, that is not necessarily the mark of a gluttonous person. The mark of a gluttonous person is one who overindulges consistently and fails to avoid anything which he enjoys. As a clerk, that determination cannot be made based upon a singular interaction unless the individual sits and indulges until he or she becomes ill or perhaps passes out from drunkenness. In bars, bartenders are not to serve those in such a condition. Hence, the basic principle at hand: discrimination based upon behavior. People may be overweight for a myriad of reasons. To assume it is gluttony is quite arrogant in my opinion.
Furthermore, if I own a business and I am a Christian and someone comes in cursing at me or others in my establishment, if he seems angry and unstable, I would not entertain his business. In fact, my husband has dealt with this situation at his business and asked men to leave.
If a man or woman comes in sexually harassing me or someone else in my business or is dressed inappropriately, as a business owner with concern for my other customers, the protection of my family, and my own well-being, I absolutely would deal with that individual accordingly and likely ask them to leave.
If he says he is going to use my services, my help, or my business to accomplish ungodly actions, I have a duty to decline. It has less to do with the consumer than it does my own soul. I am accountable to a holy God. I am responsible to do no harm.
And how does a clerk determine whether a person they just met is greedy or divorced or lying anyway? He cannot. If he were any of those things or had any other issue, because Christians see people as souls and not merely income providers, if I had any opportunity at all, I would try to begin to know him, understand where he was spiritually, and make a determination as to whether he was seeking help with his problems or simply justifying every wrong action in his life. The difference here, and the reason why this comic is not a fair comparison is because most people do not go parading their sin around – and rightly so! We should be ashamed, not proud! But certain ones do. God help us!
If another person makes his personal choices blatantly known and those choices grieve my conscience, if they are patronizing me I have an obligation to correct them, and, if they do not listen, shake the dust from my feet and send them on. I expect them to do the same for me. I mean, I wouldn’t go to a place where women are required to wear burkas in my bikini and expect not to be exposed for my ignorance and indecency. My family and my beliefs are more important than a few dollars out of the hands of those who do not value decency or have respect for us or for Our God.
Do not be duped by those who use intimidation and the word discrimination to bully and grossly discriminate against Christians. We have not only the freedom, but also the duty to decline being an accomplice to dirty deeds. Those who are truly intolerant prove themselves with force tactics, fear mongering, and intimidating manipulation. Use your God-given discernment and refuse them.